Ask a busy person and you’ll get the job done – The Jewish Star
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By Rabbi Zvi Hersh Weinreb
Iam fairly certain that you have heard this saying before: If you want something done, ask a busy person to do it. It is a popular saying and is attributed to all sorts of wise people, ranging from Benjamin Franklin to Lucille Ball. Whatever its original source, Im convinced that there is a great measure of truth to it.
Busy people are generally responsible and reliable people. It, therefore, makes good sense to entrust the tasks one wishes to accomplish to such individuals. But it goes deeper. Busy people are always looking for new challenges, interesting options, and opportunities to use their intelligence and creativity, and that is what makes them so valuable.
There are all sorts of reasons why some individuals are not busy. Some simply lack opportunity. Others are incompetent.
But such individuals are not opposites of the busy person. The busy persons opposite is the individual who shirks new tasks, who actively avoids new assignments, who is reluctant to risk novelty and uncertainty.
Where in the Torah can we find mention of archetypes, or models, of the busy person and of the one who is determined not to be busy? I like to suggest we consider this weeks portion, Toldot (Genesis 25:19-28:9). I refer to Jacob and Esau, and specifically to the following passages:
Jacob was cooking a lentil stew when Esau came in from the field, exhausted.Esau said to Jacob, Pour some of this red stuff down my throat because Im exhausted! Jacob said, Sell me your birthright (the privilege of performing the sacrificial services carried out by the firstborn). Esau replied, I am going to die, so why do I need this birthright? He sold his birthright to Jacob. Jacob gave bread and lentil stew to Esau, who ate and drank, and got up and left. Esau despised the birthright. (Genesis 25:29-34, adapted from the expanded translation of Rabbi Chaim Miller)
Now let me to introduce you to a Torah scholar and his unique take on the personalities of Jacob and Esau. I refer to a man whom I had heard about many years ago from my childhood tutor, Rabbi Jacob Abramczyk. In his youth, Rabbi Abramczyk was a student at the Yeshiva of Novardik in pre-Holocaust Lithuania. He survived the Holocaust, but most of his fellow students did not. He often spoke to me of one of those fellow students, a man named Rabbi Yitzchak Valdshain.
Irecently came across a book entitled Torat Yitzchak, which contains a biography of Rabbi Valdshain, along with a few of the Torah essays which he had published in his lifetime. One of those essays is devoted to this weeks parsha. It is entitled, The Devout Person Seeks Obligations. That title intrigued me, and his opening paragraphs intrigued me all the more.
He distinguishes between two types of religious personalities. One he calls the Eagle. Just as the Eagle flies ever upward toward the sun, so does the Eagle-personality seek every opportunity to get closer to the Almightys service. He seeks to learn about religious obligations of which he was previously ignorant, and he seeks to become involved in new religious roles.
The other religious personality type he terms the Bat, the person who not only does not fly toward the sun but flies in the opposite direction, away from the suns rays, toward the darkness in which he is most comfortable. This person is satisfied with the religious obligations that are familiar to him and wants to remain oblivious to the other duties that might be out there. He is comfortable in his current role and does not wish to even hear of new possibilities, of new religious roles.
Rabbi Valdshain reminds us of a passage in the Talmud that illustrates these two opposite tendencies. It reads:
The later generations are different from the earlier ones. The earlier ones would bring their newly harvested crops through the wide front doors of their homes and courtyards, so that they could proudly perform the obligation to tithe their crops. Later generations brought their crops through rooftops, alleyways, and side entrances in order to exempt those crops from tithes. (Talmud Bavli, Berachot 35b, loosely translated.)
The earlier generations were Eagles, flying upward toward the sun and performing the good deeds far beyond the minimal standards. Later generations deteriorated to the level of Bats, doing what they could to evade, albeit within the letter of the law, unwanted obligations.
Rabbi Valdshain elaborates upon the differences between the two personalities. As I understand it, his Eagle is like our busy man, who is ever alert to new responsibilities, who rises to every new occasion, and who constantly broadens the sphere of his experience.
Of course, Rabbi Valdshain is concerned with the man who is busy with religious affairs, but from a psychological perspective, his analysis can easily be applied to any area of human activity.
Rabbi Valdshains Bat is not a bad person. He is a complacent person. One might even say that he is a self-satisfied person.
Taking the Eagle/Bat metaphor a bit further, one can say that the Eagle, because he is open to the suns radiance, is open to personal growth. The Bat, however, hides from the sun and so denies himself personal growth opportunities.
For Rabbi Valdshain, this is the key difference between the Jacob and Esau. Jacob actively seeks to purchase the role of the firstborn. He greatly desires the role of sacrificial service, the challenges of leadership, the expansion of his spirituality, and the opportunities for reaching out to others.
Esau, on the other hand, eschews new responsibilities and new obligations. He is satisfied with lentil stew, with the red stuff, with his basic physical needs. Sacrificial service, the pressures of leadership, challenging spiritual opportunities these are all mere burdens to him. They are to be despised.
And so, he eats and he drinks and he gets up and he leaves.
These two personality types, the Eagle and the Bat, reside side by side within each of us. There are occasions when we fly upwards to the sun and become responsible busy people. There are also, regrettably, moments when we withdraw to the dark caverns of our souls, avoid all sorts of possibilities, and forfeit growth opportunities.
Rabbi Valdshain, may his memory be blessed, urges us to be aware of these tendencies within us all. He implores us to suppress our inner Bat and permit our inner Eagle to soar.
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