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Posted By admin on March 26, 2022

Kylie Jenner and Travis Scott with their first child, daughter Stormi (Getty Images for Netflix)

This week, Kylie Jenner revealed that her newborn son with rapper Travis Scott is no longer named Wolf Webster.

FYI our sons name isnt Wolf anymore, Jenner wrote via her Instagram stories. Just wanted to share because I keep seeing Wolf everywhere. A month ago, shed announced her sons ex-name the same way.

There was a mixed reaction to Jenners announcement. Wolf Van Halen son of late musician Eddie Van Halen and actress Valerie Bertinelli wrote on Twitter: THANK F**K. Fans added, jokingly, There can only be one. But actually, in the world of celebrity baby names, Wolf isnt so uncommon. As well as Wolf Van Halen, theres Nakoa-Wolf Momoa, son of Jason Momoa and Lisa Bonet. And theres also the buttoned-up CNN anchor Wolf Blitzer.

Whatever the reason for the name change, Im all for changing a babys name if it doesnt suit them. In fact, I have several birth certificates highlighting my own parents journey to choosing my namewell, at least one of them.

My parents agreed on my first name almost immediately; it was my middle name that gave them trouble. So when pressed by hospital staff for a name, they said they needed more time. I spent the first few weeks of my life legally known as Baby Girl Weingarten.

Many observant Jews have two sets of names. Theres the Hebrew or Yiddish name used mostly by relatives or close friends, and theres the legal name, which for Americans is generally easier to spell and pronounce in English. Im a bit luckier than most. I have a Hebrew name, a legal name, and a constantly fluctuating name.

My Hebrew name is also Rachel, though its pronounced differently (add a guttural ch sound and youre on the right track). Since Im named after someone who died young my aunt Rachel was a young girl when she was murdered by the Nazis during the Holocaust my parents added the name Chaya (which means life) to that Hebrew name. But they didnt think that name was a great fit for my easy-to-pronounce legal name, the one that would be used in schools and on passports (kindly reference the aforementioned guttural ch sounds). And so, they continued to mull it over.

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In the end, my parents came to an unusual solution. They added the middle initial C to Rachel on my birth certificate, and figured that I could choose my own middle name at some point. Rachel C. Weingarten really is my full name, with nothing in between.

I strongly believe being able to choose my own name has shaped a lot of my personality, creativity, and independence. It continues to do so on a daily basis because I play around with that C as often as I can.

Indeed, Ive gone through so many names starting with the letter C that I dont remember most of them. There was Cassatt, for the artist Mary Cassatt, the first American artist and woman who was part of the French Impressionist movement. There was Caoimhe, when I was a columnist for a Scottish newspaper. My editor wasnt a fan of a middle initial in place of a name, so I let my readers choose my middle name.

There was also that time I told a bank officer my middle name was Cai a name Id developed a fondness for that month without realizing she subsequently added it to all my documentation. That took years to straighten out. Ive even had TSA officers try to get me to confess my real middle name when they look at my passport with confusion at airports. It cant be that bad, they say, trying to get me to admit the supposedly terrible name my parents gave me that I couldnt even stand to print out fully on my legal documentation. It isnt, I respond. It really isnt!

I still change my middle name regularly. I recently became a chaplain with the United States Chaplain Corps. In that part of my life, Im referred to as Chaplain Weingarten. Its become so familiar now that I think of my middle name as Chaplain.

When I started writing this, I called my mom to ask her what made her think of giving me an initial instead of a name. I was ahead of my time, she said, half-jokingly, before continuing, I thought people should have the privilege of choosing their own name. I know my mother was teasing, but it truly has been a gift to choose my own name to suit my mood or life stage.

As for Kylie Jenner and her baby whoever Wolf ends up being next I love the fact that when his name didnt fit, she and her baby daddy were brave enough to make the change. A cynic might wonder if changing the babys name is part of a multi-billion dollar entertainment franchise that didnt work with Wolf. But I like to take people at their word. I know from my parents experience that sometimes, feeling like a child doesnt suit anything you come up with can lead to a crisis but then an innovative solution.

Whatever name this baby ends up with, its the right fit for him alone. And if they decide he should simply go with the letter W, I can vouch for the fact that itll work out just fine.

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Voices: Like Kylie Jenner, my parents struggled with my name then they came up with an unusual solution - Yahoo News

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